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There are two ways to be fooled.
One is to believe what isn't true;
the other is to refuse to believe what is true.
- Soren Kierkegaard
See that star? "You mean the bright red one?" his daughter asks in return. Yes, you know it might not be there anymore. It might be gone by now. Exploded, or something! Its light is still crossing space just reaching our eyes now, but we don't see it as it is; we see it as it was. . . The immense distances to the stars and the galaxies mean that we see everything in space in the past, some as they were before the earth came to be.
_Carl Sagan
Perhaps you arose with a celebratory burst: a blood-rushing sparkle, a grand gesture of appreciation for this new day. Or you entered today gracefully. Quiet. Resolute. Feeling able and available. Ahhh! Or grateful: alive with crisp anticipation. Welcome. Trust you're creating an awesome day.
We may have been told by someone with our best interest at heart that life as we experience it is coded in the language we express. "Watch what you say," they advise us. Whether the assertion withstands the strictest scrutiny is not the point of today's uncovering Beyond The Hero. Even so, perhaps you do not wrestle with that presumption nor require neuroscience for a validation, because your wealth of experience has confirmed it to you.
Even if not, circuitously at least, one might nod in tacit agreement with or at acceptance of the presumption, especially if one acknowledges experiencing the uncanny power of belief, and-or the cordoning role of values, and-or the mysterious efficacy of certain utterances.
A close friend recently called to inform me her mom - a noble mother-figure to many of us growing up - had just passed. Her mother and I had not so long ago extended greetings by way of this dear friend, and I had no reason to anticipate this news. In course of comforting each other and of absorbing my friend's superb wisdom in the moment, I inquired the cause. My friend, who I have known since our days of cutting teeth, as it were, said, "Well, you know, she passed of the word we do not speak."
I had no idea what that word is, and it is my tendency to avoid unnecessary speculation. i did not know what to say or how to respond. I left it alone. A few moments later the opportunity came again. I was hopeful for some better understanding, for she was discussing her last conversation with her mom. Again, she explained that her mother knew her time had come and that she would succomb of the word we do not speak. I left well alone.
I am aware, however, of many words many of us speak in normal course seemingly confident of their innate power. Let us for this purpose single out a few such words: character, responsibility, accountability, belonging, love, honor, respect, performance, ability, bond.
We have a sense of some gravity in each of these words, especially by dint of their positioning or their circumstance or the stature of their users. Let's for the purpose of this example lift the covering on these word-samples, and weigh each privately. Let us also make a huge leap (for convenience sake only) and allow these particular words to be spoken in course by let's say group x and group y. Here is what we've uncovered:
When group x speak these, the gravity of each word, by whatever mechanism or stricture, is one of patronage, of dependence, of dominion, of positioning, of circumspect.
When group y speak these, the gravity or each word, by whatever absorption, is one of dignitiy, nobility, divinity, sovereignty, fellowship. camaraderie.
In other words, these two groups use the same words but do not speak the same language. And may have litterally no natural base of understanding where the other is coming from, for the rhythms of their lives are by such noted means and those methods habitually coordinated.
For one group, the building of bonds require enormous energy; bonding is hard; it is earned; it has to be put together by pact; the right alchemy is required for its sustenance; its glue requires meticulous attention.
For the other group, bonds are natural; they form readily, easily, wantingly, organically; it is the breaking of bonds that require enormous energy; it is the breaking of bonds that is unnatural, and leave scars.
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Welcome to episode five of BEYOND THE HERO (part 2) - digniity - curated by Neville DeAngelou, uncovering elements of the innate language of noble leadership (should it be emulated) which displays a natural understanding that there is life in the blood, much of which is yet to be learned and understood, exemplary of inborn majesty.
Enjoy actionable discoveries continuously shared - smartly - particularly those that uplift, inspire, promote harmony, expand opportunities, exemplify beauty, and reveal wonder, in other words, those proven to strengthen our emboldened exercise of genuine love through all of love's fertile dimensions, supplying those of us who are blessed and inspired to take action with necessary skillsets to be awesome in our real world. Namaste. Share.
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