Like any good mother, her desire was to have her child grow bright and bold, and to be full of good humor and wit, and to be generous and courageous and kind.
For, being such, how could anyone not have the most beautiful story?
After all, what is the code and concept of life, of living, of humanity, if it is not to find one's calling and to have that calling be greater than one's self; if it is not to pursue that calling and complete it with joyous self-respect?
Wherever you go, whatever you do, you take yourself with you. Everything else is dressing.
Beyond The Hero, along the road of significance, extraordinary is frequently activated via purposeful enactments of ordinary. There too, one recognizes extraordinariness being borne out from nurtured ordinariness, and experiences it evolving out from nourished every-day-ness. Magnificence is its hallmark. Yes, along this road of significance, amidst quiet miracles that seek no attention, there exists an ever presence of the extraordinary on the way to becoming legendary. Have you noticed?
It is within this context that we challenge ourselves by way of experience to comprehend and respond to a unique leadership need, not merely in terms of skillsets, rather in terms of transformational effectiveness. And we've come upon a few cool elements.
There are many popularized iconographies of leadership: shepherd, servant, servant-shepherd, lion, and the like, are but a few. Those offer value. Leadership, however, is not an abstract, it is a dynamic. In its broadest as well as in its most narrow sense, leadership operates within the confines of an organized or blended set of activities and-or situations within a particular environment or framework or circumstance whether tightly or loosely defined. Leadership has no relevance in a vacuum. Given the set of fertile elements referred, extraordinarily effective transformational leadership emerges organically out of empowered and impassioned activities of many kinds. Organically! That, we've found to be so awesome, as to be quietly miraculous. Imposed "leadership" is a bugbear.
Examples abound (universally) of leaders skillfully effective in one arena only to find themselves dismally inadequate in another. This suggests something noteworthy: that there is a true nature of transformation leadership. Not mark of, but nature of. If not revelatory of a nature, at minimum it is foundational for that hypothesis. That has been our resolved challenge, and we're onto something: a) those cool elements, b) ways of carving hygenic highways through an ever thickening smog of misinformation and disinformation.
It is evident that leadership is more than the acquisition of a set of skills, and that particular sets of skills are necessary but not sufficient for transformational effectiveness.
Here is an open question: from a proliferation of examples of iconic leaders whose legendary details are enviably storied and studied, what have you determined to be the unique nature of transformational leadership? What stands out - beyond routines and ideals?
Also, what have you decided by way of practice to be personal values and necessary skillsets without which leadership in its narrowest (personal) and broadest (universal) senses prove inadequate, unfruitful, or an abysmal squander of valued resources?
misinformation vs disinformation
disinformation is the deliberate dissemination of "bad" information with intention to deceive, to destroy, to detract, to distract, to discouraged, to divide
(Typical Originators & Carriers: "devils" and "demons")
misinformation is "bad" information passed-on or disseminated unawares the information is not good
(Typical Originators & Carriers: "puppets" and "pawns")
Welcome to episode eleven of BEYOND THE HERO - a leading challenge - curated by Neville DeAngelou, inviting and ecouraging each of us to personally ferret out from each and all elements of this episode actionables effective in the seeding,birthing, and nurturing of true change.
Generosity. Humility. Integrity.
Enjoy actionable discoveries continuously shared - smartly - particularly those that uplift, inspire, promote harmony, expand opportunities, exemplify beauty, and reveal wonder, in other words, those proven to strengthen our emboldened exercise of genuine love through all of love's fertile dimensions, supplying those of us who are blessed and inspired to take action with necessary skillsets to be awesome in our real world. Namaste. Share.
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Miracles of mind-over-matter and follies of matterless minds are enormously edifying.
There exists amongst us a breed BEYOND THE HERO - not some sort of stereotype. Time and again, we have leaned on brilliant examples from amongst our Wonder Women to facilitate transformation and growth and achievement. This will continue to be so in this segment. Learning never stops. Beyond where growth stops, the news is not good.
In our new segment, however, we will primarily be highlighting four critical elements of the RyoMale, which we will use to explore, examine, exemplify, and work out in order to expand amongst our ranks a) more of our brand new breed BEYOND THE HERO and b) effective emergent leaders (of all stripes) apopros to the better values of our times.
We are OPEN - Our World Needs Each Of Us, that much better at our best!
Today's pivot QUESTION: you are not closed-in, trapped in an echo-chamber, comfortable only with the views of those who think and act and believe as you do; you avail yourself to disparate views and processes and ideas and solutions and alternative ways of thinking; you are neither flippant nor a sail in the wild wind; you sift and sort and work things out without re-inventing the wheel; you assess the risk with necessity to reveal; you understand the adjacent possible; and you test, learning along each step
- how do you determine whether the strategy you've employed to achieve your vision is working per plan (timely); what have you in place for a switch if you discover it is not?
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It Didn't just Happen!
Have you had your cup of water as yet for the day? Cofee? Tea? A bath? Brushed your teeth? Washed your face? That water didn't just happen into there - wherever! There is a system in place to have it happen. There is a process in place - so now you have it or the choice not to have it or to be disappointed about it for whatever reason or to be grateful for it or to not even have to think about it. But it didn't just happen! Someone or some sets of ones put that system and that process in place, whether or not that process or that system has been rendered invisible over the course of time. Are there pipes in your place of abode? It didn't just happen! Is there water or none? It didn't just happen! If YOU did not put that system and process in place, SOMEONE ELSE DID! It didn't just happen!
BEYOND THE HERO, the skills used along each journey of signifcance were honed from the hero's journey where no hero can go it alone or come through without being transformed. BEYOND THE HERO, its leaders are of a brand new breed, as we shall continue to discover.
"Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. Keep your words positive because your words become your behavior. Keep your behavior positive because your behavior becomes your habits. Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny." _ Mohandas Gandhi
Perspective matters.
"Do not repeat the tactics which have gained you one victory, but let your methods be regulated by the infinite variety of circumstances." _ Sun Tzu
There are physical systems, social systems, and psychological systems. They are the bricks and mortar of the structure within which we function - even if they appear invisible, even if we have not taken the time to notice. There are those who are assiduously focused on making sure those systems - physical systems, social systems, psychological systems - are working for the advantage of their interests!
What about you?
What are the systems in place for the fulfillment of your dreams, the coordination of your life, the fullest experience of your intentions? They don't just happen! We might just happen to use them.
It is of great value to be aware and to note that all such SYSTEMS are continually being created and sustained by the habits and means and ways of people AND policies AND patterns woven together to create the fabric, the environment, the matrix, the circumstance through which and within which accomplishments are advanced or confined.
This is the challenge of change!
At that realization, what is leadership? Who is a leader? What does a leader do in - let's be nice - the circle you thrive in? Who becomes one? How? What if, perhaps, we've had the answer all along and must now re-evaluate what it means: that a child will lead them?
Remember: this is YOUR LIFE; only you can live it. Live out the expression of your love.
Take Action
"Know what you own. Understand what you claim. Believe you can achieve what you conceive then call it by its name. Mine! The extent to which you have this clarity of mind, this purity of understanding, this strength of belief, you have the fire, the fuel, the impetus, the passion, the determination, the willpower you require to pursue and retrieve your truest desire. But do not claim what does not belong to you. It will not keep you . . . it will suffer you but for only so long."
You are valued. You are important. What you experience is important. Your intention matters. You are a whole being. You are a true wonder. You diminish yourself whenever you pit valued elements of who you are against vital elements of who you are: your intuitive self against your intellectual self, your rational self against your emotional self, your gut against your heart against your head. Don't be put at war against yourself: you are a masterpiece. An intricate being. Human!
How is Your Life today?
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Life: it is a dance. It gets better with practice; its music is in your heart and in your soul and in your blood and in your bones. Life; it is a dance. It gets better with practice. You have a partner – your spirit. You can have a party if you like, but choose smartly who you invite, for life – your life – is a dance. It gets better with practice, unless you stop the music or so crowd your dance floor there is no space to move or be moved within it. Explore. Yes, life; it is a dance. It gets better with practice until the dance becomes the dancer and the dancer becomes the dance and life and all of existence becomes a singular flow. Yes, life; it is a dance. It gets better with practice. Dance.
Masterpiece
a work of outstanding artistry, skill, or workmanship.
tour de force
Cut Strings, Re-Charge Power Pack
Home is a special place. Love resides there. The best journeys take you there. Hope lives there. Home leaves no question about belonging. Friends belong there. Dreams thrive there. Home is a place of forgiveness. There is no rejection there. Home is a place of rest and recuperation and rejuvination. There is laughter there. Life takes you to unexpected places; love brings you home. At home you are free to flourish. It is where you birthed your wings. Are you there yet? We live amongst viruses and bacteria: some are villains and some are monsters. Don't feed monsters. Villains are everywhere; you are ever in their sights. Be prepared: find your rhythm, stay in balance, keep your values and your vision in focus. You got this.
Out beyond ideas of right doing and wrong doing there is a field. I'll meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass, the world is too full to talk about.
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live laugh love
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let your light shine
Come, let us all be friends for once,
Let us make life easy on us,
Let us be lovers and loved ones,
The earth shall be left to no one.
Across the nation and around the world there is a long rumble.
It is a rumble so loud it strikes ready ears as a distant clap of a fierce thunder. It is a rumble so low, it rides beneath the noise of a thousand human fears; it can no longer be heard. Fear of flight, fear of heights, fear of sand, fear of snow, fear of monsters in the closet, fear of bugs in the pillow, fear of cats, fear of bats, fear of strangers at the door, fear of being lost, fear of being laughed at, fear of being stuck in the toilet bowl, fear of whites, fear of blacks, fear of browns, blues and yellows, fear of nakedness, fear of the unknown, fear of being hurt.
Smile. Live. Love. Laugh. Look. Listen. Learn. Be awesome. You are powerful beyond measure. You are not alone. You can do all things. I am you. You are me. We are one. Keep Sharing.
May our light shine on sprinkled seeds along The Journey.
"Live Your Life - Live it well. You are worth it."
Listen. Learn. Lead.
"I have the audacity to believe that peoples everywhere can have three meals a day for their bodies, education and culture for their minds, and dignity, equality, and freedom for their spirits. I believe that what self-centered men have torn down, men other-centered can build up." Martin Luther King Jr.Look. Listen. Learn. STRETCH & SAVE! (A Place Called Ah.)
Breathe.
We are accompanied.
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BE EVER REMINDED:the life you are living is YOUR life; ONLY YOU can live it!
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